To be or not to be... a victim!
- Mar 21
- 2 min read
The tides are changing very fast and it will be more and more difficult to be a victim, we will find ourselves more instinctively pushed to take responsability of ourselves.
This is happening because as we become more aware of our situations around us and the fact that we are not happy for what ever reason, we will become aware of the reasons and that will push us to change.
The question is will we change or will we choose to remain the same, If we choose to remain the same, we are CHOOSING to be a victim of the situation, the reality is we are not.
When we are younger we may have an ability to change and more energy to do it, even though it all takes effort. When we get older and have been in a situation along time and then gain the awareness that something needs to change, it can be quite daunting and create anxiety and negative thinking.
What is daunting?
The thought of doing things alone
The thought of financial responsability
The thought of having a difficult conversation
The thought of taking responsability for our own life
The thought of breaking unhealthy attachment codependency
Why is it daunting? what makes it so hard?
From my experience its breaking a habit, overcoming the fear, having courage to take action and face the uncertainty, a big leap of faith!
Are we willing to do that? no? then we are choosing to stay the same, the only option in this case, to not become terribly unhappy or in dis-ease, is acceptance!.
The only thing that is really in our way is our mind and our way of thinking, unless we are really being held hostage and can't escape our situation, every thing can be changed.
People can live in beautiful places and have all the comforts of life and be totally miserable and then there are others live in what some would call poverty and yet they can be happy and satisied.
So! the real question is,
How responsible are we and are we living our own dreams and vision or someone elses?
Some say life begins at 40 or even 50.... all nonsense!,
Life begins when we decide to stop pleasing the audience!
If you would enjoy discussing this further, we can have a workshop on the matter or a one to one chat, check out the growth hub on my site! thanks Sarah
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